Even if Valentine’s Day is nowhere near, I thought it’d be fun to come up with list of questions to ask your love partner. They work for boyfriend, girlfriend, spouse or a date. Personally, I love lists like this. Every time my husband and I go through a Q&A together, we learn something new about each other. That´s why I arranged a set of 50 fun questions to ask your partner to spice thing up.
I then like to safeguard this new snippet of information (I usually write it down in a note on my iPhone.) Then, when it’s my husband’s birthday, our anniversary, or just an occasion where I want to surprise him, I’ll pull up my note and use what I’ve written down as inspiration.)
For example, say I learned that my husband preferred the mountains over the beach. I might surprise him with a weekend getaway to the Smokey Mountains for our anniversary.
I challenge you to do the same! Have fun going through this list with your spouse, learning something new about each other then using that information to strengthen your relationship.
Happy Valentine’s Day (or date😉)!
50 Fun and Funny Questions to Ask Your Spouse
1. What makes me happiest?
An important question to talk about what gives you the most joy. Maybe family time, a sports, spending time together, travel?
2. How tall am I?
Let’s see if your partner remembers!
3. Do I prefer the city or the countryside?
Do I prefer the convenient, but in-a-hurry life of the city, or the peacefully but adventurous life in the countryside?
4. Beach or mountains?
Do I like sunny beaches, getting tanned, and swimming or the nature views (and insects!) from the mountains?
5. What are my nicknames?
I may have more than one. Hope your partner doesn’t remember the embarrassing ones!
6. What is my favorite TV show?
Of what TV show can I watch episode after episode?
7. Chocolate or vanilla ice-cream?
This should be an easy one.
8. What is my favorite dessert?
Am I into cookies/biscuits, cakes, candies, chocolates, muffins / cupcakes (Is there even a difference between muffins and cupcakes? Apparently, there is difference, lol), jelly, fruits, or pastries?
9. What is my favorite thing about you?
There is this one thing that makes you bite your lip or smile at your partner. It could be a double-edged sword if your partner know what it is.
10. What type of books do I like to read?
Do I like novels, fiction, non-fiction, or maybe even textbooks?
11. What is my favorite drink?
You can breakdown this question into alcoholic or non-alcoholic drinks.
12. What is my favorite Whatsapp sticker?
You partner should know which WA stickers you send over and over. It is easy to show the actual one by looking up in your favorite ones.
13. Who would I love to meet one day?
That person could be a musician, artist, athlete, or someone you admire a lot in your religion, career or sport.
14. Who is my hero?
It could be a family member, religious leader, teacher, professor, friend, historical figure, or colleague.
15. Do I like pineapple on pizza?
A deal-breaker for some people! Lol. I like it, though.
16. Do I prefer Coke or Pepsi?
Your partner should know this by heart.
17. What’s my favorite activity to do with you?
In what activity do you see me smiling when I am with you? 🙂
18. What food do I dislike the most?
What food would I rather not eat?
19. What is my dream vacation destination?
Where would I like to travel with my partner?
20. If I could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?
What country’s culture looks interesting to me or where would like to work or retire?
21. What is the funniest thing I have ever done?
Whether it’s a hilarious mishap, a joke that went too far, or just a spontaneous act of silliness, what caused your partner laughing non-stop because of you?
22. What are 3 things in my bucket list?
Dreams, wishes, and must-dos. Can you name three?
23. What is my guilty pleasure?
That sneaky joy I rarely admit to. What is it? It might be a cheesy song, an over-the-top TV show, or even a peculiar snack.
24. What are 3 things I couldn’t leave the house without?
Everyday essentials I never forget. What are they?
25. What is my favorite color?
Let’s see if your partner is sensible of the colors you use.
26. What is my favorite season?
Is it the blossoms of spring, the warmth of summer, the colors of autumn, or the chilly vibes of winter?
27. What is my favorite sport?
My favorite sport could be one I practice or one I like to watch.
28. And my favorite sports team?
Which team’s victory makes my day?
29. What are my favorite bands/singers?
Whose tunes can’t I stop humming?
30. What’s the first thing I would buy if I won the lottery?
Dream big! What’s my first splurge?
31. What would my dream house look like?
Would I like a big kitchen, pool, large walk-in closet, or a large garden?
32. What is my favorite food?
Of what food I cannot get enough?
33. What would my perfect day look like?
Sun, rain, adventure, or relaxation? Describe it.
34. Who is better at cooking?
Me or you: who’s the three-star-Michelin kitchen star?
35. What is one thing I’ve always wanted to do but haven’t yet?
That elusive bucket-list item I haven’t checked off… what is it?
36. Who is more romantic?
Who’s the Casanova between us?
37. Who forgets things more easily?
Who’s the one with the “goldfish memory”?
38. Who likes to party more?
Who’s more likely to dance till dawn: you or moi?
39. Who realize that we like each other first?
Who got hit by Cupid’s arrow first: me or you?
40. Who is my favorite fictional character?
Book, film, or series: who’s my fictional fave?
41. What’s my favorite type of cuisine?
Italian, Chinese, Mexican, Indian, a fusion of them, or maybe something else?
42. What is my favorite holiday?
Christmas, Eastern, Halloween, or another festive day?
43. What is my favorite movie?
What movie could I rewatch until the end of time? And, why do i like it a ton?
44. What is my favorite song?
That tune I always play on repeat?
45. Would I rather be rich or famous?
Wealth or spotlight: which do I crave?
46. What was my most embarrassing moment?
That time I wished the ground would swallow me?
47. What is my most hated household chore?
Which chore makes me go “Not today, Satan!”?
48. What is my favorite place?
Am I a rock n’ roll enthusiast, a pop lover, a classical aficionado, or do I sway to the beats of electronic dance music?
49. What is my favorite restaurant?
Which diner or bistro gets my consistent thumbs up?
50. What’s my favorite scent or perfume?
Which fragrance reminds you of me?
I hope you have a great time and that your partner is able to answer all of the 50 fun questions. I’ll come up with a list with more serious and deeper questions for your partner in a different blog post.
In addition to this list, I also recommend reading the book, “The Five Love Languages” by Dr Gary Chapman. This book is an excellent guide to helping understand your partner and strengthen your relationship with each other.
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